I help women stop negotiating their worth in love.

I’ve been a licensed trauma therapist since 2011.

Since 2019, I’ve worked specifically as a transformation coach helping women break painful love patterns — especially the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men, overgiving, settling, and feeling not quite chosen.

I’ve worked with hundreds of women in this area.

I know what changes outcomes.

And I know what keeps the pattern repeating.

Smart, capable women don’t struggle in love because they’re unaware.

They struggle because something in their identity quietly believes:

“This is what I get.”
“I have to earn commitment.”
“If I’m better, he’ll stay.”

That belief system usually starts earlier than they think.

For me, it started in childhood.

I spent time in foster care.

There were abandonment wounds I didn’t fully recognize at the time.

Later in life, the men I chose reflected how I felt about myself in love.

Uncertain.
Replaceable.
Never fully secure.

Rebuilding that identity changed my outcomes.

And when I began teaching this work, I watched it change other women’s lives too.

When a woman rebuilds her identity, her standards rise.

When her standards rise, who she’s drawn to shifts.

Commitment stops feeling like something she has to fight for.

That work works.

In 2025, I had a personal encounter with Jesus.

In mere seconds, He healed emotional and relational areas in me that I didn’t even know were still influencing how I moved through love.

It was immediate.

Clear.

Undeniable.

I didn’t abandon the psychology I’d spent years mastering.

I brought God into it.

Now, instead of trying to rewire identity through effort alone, we invite Jesus directly into the wound.

Instead of striving to fix yourself, you allow Him to expose what’s false and replace it with truth.

What I’ve seen since then is this:

When women integrate Jesus into the healing process, the work deepens.

The striving decreases.

The self-reliance softens.

And their worth stops rising and falling based on how a man shows up.

This is not about becoming religious.

It’s about no longer trying to heal alone.

My work now integrates:

Identity reconstruction.
Nervous system regulation.
And a relational partnership with God in the healing process.

Because the men you choose are not random.

They reflect what your identity believes you deserve.

When that identity changes, your attraction changes.

And when your attraction changes, your outcomes follow.

If you’re ready to rebuild your identity and experience aligned, God-honoring love —

You’re in the right place.